there's no such thing as perfect person, neither is there a perfect relationship...

[gingging]

allow me to share my five-centavo worth of idea: most of the time, it is the failure to be honest and sincere of either one of the two individuals involved in a relationship that usually starts the crack in the vessel called marriage... the moment something is being hidden from one of the partners, surely, this will weigh down that bond called faithfulness, loyalty or whatever you call it. and then, one thing can lead to another...
That is why TRUTHFULNESS or being truthfull to each other is a very vital element that would keep a relationship going. Kung masakpan na gani, ayaw na lang try og lusot kay it will rub salt on raw wound. ngano man diay ug iadmit nga nangigat o nagfling-fling, o nagflirt sa lain? it would at least be a better option to save face rather than worsen the situation by trying to save one's skin...

wala daw makumkom nga aso (as in "smoke"). try daw dakpa ang aso. so when there's smoke, there's fire... that's an old adage, but it still hold true...

[Narciso Jover Jr.]

tama ni..bitaw, i admit na lang gud, mas gaan siya..i have been asked by too many friends..kanang ngano daw nga dili na lang tagaan ug kagawasan ang isa ka nilalang kung mo abot ang time nga in ana...bitaw no? dili diay ta angay nga mag dinalo, kay duna may uban nga gusto malipay sa ubang kiliran...so, kung imong gunitan the more nga molugnot, morag bata ba nga gusto jud molugnot kung guhitan kay gusto mo explore...ushay man gud no kay ego sab, dili ta gusto nga malipay ang uban..hehehe..kanang ingon nga..hmmp! i will make your life miserable for the rest of your...whatever...ana..diay kay usahay dili ta makadawat...pero kung i analyze jud ug maayo, hala ayawg kumkuma ang aso, sagdi nag mogawas....lad ang na man na kung magawas na..hupay na ang dughan...acceptance lang jud diay ang tambal sa tanang butang nga mka pa bug at sa kasing kasing sa tawo.....

[Rebecca P:itzke]

Hi, gusto lang pod ko mo share sa akong hunahuna about this discussion. Mo-agree ako kay Ginging about when she said na "there is no perfect person, neither a perfect relationship" True, mao nga kung kinsa man ang may plano na mag-tie og relationship through the ordinance of marriage, na huna-huna-on na ang kaminyoon sagrado og sadihang ang duha ka kasingkasing nag vow to God na mag-ka-hi-usa sila sa kaminyoon, they both are covenanting to God. Hope na within that marriage they put God first in their relationship and everything will fall into its proper place. True that humans are imperfect, but ato pong himumduman na to ..forgive is divine..Let us remember that we can always change for the better. We can choose to be better and do better which lead to peace and happiness.I would like to share this quote with you about marriage: "A good marriage does not require a perfect man or a perfet woman. It only requires a man and a woman committed to strive together toward perfection.''(Elder Oaks)
Thanks for allowing me to share these thoughts.

[Emeberta Ambalong Nazareth]

korek gyod ka rebecca , kung wala naka centro and Guinoo sa kaminyoon mosabog gyod kana kay theres nothing na man in common sa duha ka "room mates" - kanya kanya na lang kalipay ang gui atubang.... so if two individuals covenanted to God ---both of them will always make God smile in their relationship /family... because a happy family is Gods partner in our society in building a strong foundation of a righteous living.

NICE DISCUSSION HERE>>> something to do with a transformed mindanao!!!!

[Emeberta Ambalong Nazareth]

OH kinabuhi gui anod anod sa bul hog sa mga luha......

Mingaw baya kaayo nga mouli ka nga wala kay maabtan nga asawa .... unsa na lang kaha ang kinabuhi nga nag inusara tungod kay gusto pod ni mister nga hakopon ang tanan babaye oi.... ang ending nawala na ang tanan especially ang mga anak!!!

[Victor and Sally Brubacker]

Hala oi, pagkalaglum ba kaayo sa atong sinultihan danhi, BISDAK jud diay ta.

Ingon sila mag-antos lagi kuno ta para masantos. Busa kung wala pa kamo naminyo, huna-hunaa sa pag-ayo ug siguruha nga nailhan mo gayud ang imong future nga kapikas sa kinabuhi, para dili matintal sa mga kalibutanong kahilayan.

Ang kanta nag-ingon "kay rami nang winasak na tahanan, kay rami nang pusong pinaluha...o tukso layu-an mo ako..." Naa gyud diay ang mga tukso bisan asa ta pa-ingon, so importante jud diay nga magbantay ta para dili mahidalin-as sa atong kaminyu-on, ba' pa man dili na makabangon...

A family that prays together stays together. Marriage takes three - God, you and your spouse. Guard your thoughts - we don't let our senses trap us. Thoughts uncontrolled are like an automobile in neutral on a hill. Anything can happen, and the result is always disaster. Nothing earthly gives a man more inspiration and incentive than a true wife. Nothing in this world so adorns and elevates a woman as a true husband. Let's love one another, NOT LOVE ANOTHER ONE.

[Emeberta Ambalong Nazareth]

True love waits... of course !

Pray for Gods perfect timing, and the safest decision on earth is in the center of Gods will in marriage. Mag una una man god ta og overtake - kan pa nato ang atong Guinoo most of the time.